How To Get a Man Interested

 

Okay after several Martini’s with my girls, a real pathetic game of poker and about three hours of male bashing, not really we were just comparing notes, but at any rate I have come to the conclusion that on-line dating is one of the most evil things out there. Hear me out now before you totally condemn my point of view. Cyberspace is a big strange world with a whole lot of unknown precepts toe explore. I understand it’s a method but I think it is one that should be approached cautiously.

Number one, please tell me why in God’s name would anyone want to meet someone in cyberspace who could fabricate any and all facts about themselves with the hopes of snagging a hook up? I hear you saying, "but they could do that in person too." You’re right, and sometimes they do. At the same time, you simply increase your chances of meeting a flipping psycho when you get out in cyberspace.

Number two, think about it. If the people you meet in person turn out to be losers, psychos, stalkers, liars, cheaters, killers, thieves, pimps in major distress, and just plain old pathetic gameless, shameless, clueless, lame fools, why I ask would you think someone you meet on-line in cyberspace would be any better? What?  Am I the naive one here? I mean if so I stand to be corrected.

Recognize, the Internet has changed the dating scene totally for those brave enough to walk where angels fear to tread. It is a way to connect, network, and meet people from all over the world. At the same time, the situation creates potential fraud and danger. The Internet is a quick way to get a profile of a person without actually having an initial "human engagement" for lack of a better term. Therein lies the problem. Cutting corners can sometimes mean cutting out a lot of important information and situations you might need to be aware of. If you do this use discretion, caution and second guess everything you are told. Let’s face it, people only tell you what they want you to know. The rest is for you to find out on your own.

Do you smell cynicism here? Yep. You are darn skippy you do. I am just not convinced and sold on this concept yet. I smell danger Will Robinson! There are just way too many variables that come in to play. Okay, God forbid you enter into a long distance Internet relationship. Why don’t you just get a direct hotline to the Menendez Brothers or Charles Manson and skip the brunch and cocktail scene? This situation is potentially the most dangerous. If you are seriously involved with someone in this scenario, you better hire a private detective and do a background check. Does this sound extreme? Yeah well talk to a few people who have had these types of encounters and they will tell you it is the best investment you can possibly make. Invest and cut your losses. Seriously, if you have met someone this way and you are serious about them, then chalk it up as research toward a long term investment.

Now to avoid being bashed by those who have found cyberspace love on the Internet, I will say I know a few people who met on the Internet to later meet in person and actually developed relationships.  I also know of people who met on the Internet and were taken, deceived and misled by unscrupulous low life predators. Then there are the good stories of a few people who met on the Internet and were married and later had families together. These people took the time to get to know each other, and formed bonds and actually entered into solid relationships. Well big ups to them for making it work.

I will admit the dating scene can be brutal. It is like following a script if you will. But in the game of love this is how we have set ourselves up. We think we have to have someone, and maybe some people do. These are the one’s that are most likely to get lured in to the game of a cyberspace psycho. Maybe if we spend a little bit more time with ourselves, and get to know ourselves a little better, the people we draw into our lives will be exactly what we need when the time is right.

If you date on-line, use caution. Find out everything you can about the person and then some. Ask questions. If they don’t want to answer them, hey then press on. The person you meet in cyberspace should be the same one you meet in person. If they are not, throw them the deuce, and tell them "peace be the journey," because apparently they are hiding something. Look for inconsistencies and when you find them don’t ignore them. Again, danger Will Robinson! Most importantly listen to your gut. It is not going to lie to you. Should  you find Mr. Right, congratulations and more power to you. Share your skills with the masses because apparently you did things the right way.

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